Wonder if you took time to read Pots of Honey? I did today... and almost everyday at the start of the day. It's the first page i'll go to, when I open all my applications. However, today i oni had the chance to read it now (at lunch) cos was at meeting the whole morning. "to prepare God's people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ." - Eph 4:12-13 I'm very disturbed recently, by the conflicts that seems to be never ending, and i hear myself complaining that the other party is not listening, hearing but not listening. Why so stubborn one!! But I also wonder, am i too stubborn? Do I always want to be right? Am I hearing and not listening too? Am I being difficult...? I do not know how to work out the situation, I want to... at the end of the day... pursue the course which God wants, not what I want. However, I find that I do not know how to handle the situations... I do not know what He wants... I'm just confused. In the midst of all these... I'm losing my peace. Am I losing sight that all God wants is for us to build up until we all reach unity in the faith? Am I causing disunity by this...?